28 December 2014
Today would have been OH's Mum's 95th birthday and we have been reflecting on the inevitable happening of his Dad's death, which at nearly 95 is surely imminent, and the consequences of being left as orphans.
I remember when my Mum died, quite unexpectedly, my big Sis was really struck by the fact that we were then orphans and that she, in effect, was the senior member and it is a cold, hard fact the is will happen to all of us so I think it is up to us to make the most of what we have here and the time we have left and the people we have left.
This may seem a somewhat morbid musing for this time of year but the loss of Si is no more blunt than it was when it first happened and the commercialisation of the Christmas season and the vast amounts of booze piled in front of the supermarket doors has concentrated my mind wonderfully just now! That and the fact that I have spent Christmas either on the sofa under a blanket or in bed thanks to a horrible 'flu-type cold has me feeling a real Victor Meldrew but thankfully today the sun is shining and although I am not yet up to going out (and at minus 1 degree I have no intention of doing so) and the snow will not last so I will concentrate on the good things in my life.
The best things are the birds who have come to the bird-tables and feeders and thanks to Christmas gifts from OH I have now some beautiful cast-iron feeders and baths which I am sure they will appreciate when the weather improves. I am thrilled that we have had visits from bullfinches, a song thrush and a couple of weeks ago a nuthatch which I had not seen for years since in a previous house they nested in a pine tree in the garden. They are apparently becoming very rare and so are starlings - the experts should come to our garden when I am sure they will then find the world population of starlings!