8 January 2021
It would be churlish not to welcome the New Year as indeed I cannot be the only person on the planet who is glad to see the back of the previous year. It has been an experience being together with OH absolutely all the time but I am glad to say that we have enjoyed the experience and if anything we are closer now than before in that we often do little things without the other asking and that is just splendid.
Roll on better days!
It would be churlish not to welcome the New Year as indeed I cannot be the only person on the planet who is glad to see the back of the previous year. It has been an experience being together with OH absolutely all the time but I am glad to say that we have enjoyed the experience and if anything we are closer now than before in that we often do little things without the other asking and that is just splendid.
Roll on better days!
These two rather strange-looking monsters are just that - worry monsters which I have had much delight in creating.
They are for children/teens who are in therapy following trauma of many kinds and the idea is that the child writes their worries and concerns on a piece of paper and then put the paper in the mouth of the monster who then gobbles them up!
Apparently, together with talking therapy, these work very well and I am proud that I have already completed two which have been sent, four, which I am awaiting the Royal Mail getting their parcel collect service up an running in our village, and one in process. They are such a good way of using up what OH calls an enormous stash of yarn!
Sadly the one with the knickers/underpants is for those children who have been abused which breaks my heart.
They are for children/teens who are in therapy following trauma of many kinds and the idea is that the child writes their worries and concerns on a piece of paper and then put the paper in the mouth of the monster who then gobbles them up!
Apparently, together with talking therapy, these work very well and I am proud that I have already completed two which have been sent, four, which I am awaiting the Royal Mail getting their parcel collect service up an running in our village, and one in process. They are such a good way of using up what OH calls an enormous stash of yarn!
Sadly the one with the knickers/underpants is for those children who have been abused which breaks my heart.
22 January 2021
As OH and I have been shielding since March last year, with only forays out to medical appointments, I have found myself with some time on my hands, not least because I was lucky enough to have a superb cleaner is just a lovely person. Sadly, she cannot visit during the current lockdown as she has domestic and family duties but I cannot wait for her return. In the meantime my wonderful Hetty has come to the rescue so I am doing a bit at a time and giving OH a duster when needed!
As OH and I have been shielding since March last year, with only forays out to medical appointments, I have found myself with some time on my hands, not least because I was lucky enough to have a superb cleaner is just a lovely person. Sadly, she cannot visit during the current lockdown as she has domestic and family duties but I cannot wait for her return. In the meantime my wonderful Hetty has come to the rescue so I am doing a bit at a time and giving OH a duster when needed!
23 February 2021
Goodness me! These last few months have thrown all kinds of challenges to us and I am only now being able to clear my mind sufficiently to put my thoughts down on paper.
OH has for some months been suffering from dimished sight due to cataracts and owing to the pandemic, the NHS waiting list means that he was given an appointment after he had the first operation last Saturday! Going privately goes against the grain but the whole problem was affecting his life so much that it was the only option. Thankfully all is well and I am becoming adept at administering eyedrops which is really scary!
We also had a torrid time with one circuit of our electricity cutting out at random times and as it was the one with the boiler on it that was inconvenient to say the least. A friend recommended a super electrician who patiently sorted it all out for us and I have so much to be thankful for with all the support around me from friends and family and a phone and computer so that I can communitcate.
Turn it round and look for the good my Mum always used to say so I am doing that.
Goodness me! These last few months have thrown all kinds of challenges to us and I am only now being able to clear my mind sufficiently to put my thoughts down on paper.
OH has for some months been suffering from dimished sight due to cataracts and owing to the pandemic, the NHS waiting list means that he was given an appointment after he had the first operation last Saturday! Going privately goes against the grain but the whole problem was affecting his life so much that it was the only option. Thankfully all is well and I am becoming adept at administering eyedrops which is really scary!
We also had a torrid time with one circuit of our electricity cutting out at random times and as it was the one with the boiler on it that was inconvenient to say the least. A friend recommended a super electrician who patiently sorted it all out for us and I have so much to be thankful for with all the support around me from friends and family and a phone and computer so that I can communitcate.
Turn it round and look for the good my Mum always used to say so I am doing that.
4 April 2021
I cannot believe that eight years have gone by since my lovely adopted family celebrated a wedding and I nearly lost OH to a serious bronchial pneumonia - in one way, similarly with lockdown, it is an eternity but in another it is no time at all!
Now that lovely family has grown to three beautiful children and thankfully OH is well on the way to having his second eye operation at the end of this month. Although we have had one vaccination, another has not appeared on the horizon and we are being very careful in not mingling although we have been officially freed since 1 April from the shielding which has been onerous to say the least as the second eye operation is so important.
Sadly a young acquaintance and an older lady have both died yesterday so any cheer at the longer days is tempered with sadness, coupled with the anniversary of an old friend who died a year ago tomorrow. The only thing to be thankful for is that they are all out of their suffering and at peace - along with my beloved son.
The BBC outdid themselves with a performance of the Easter music from "Messiah" yesterday by the ENO with a magnificent performance from the Samoan born New Zealander, Brendan Wilson, who reduced me to tears, Easter reflections from Kings' and today an absolute feast of religious programmes which helped us tremendously as although our church was open, we chose not to risk going in case anything affected the important operation at the end of the month.
I cannot believe that eight years have gone by since my lovely adopted family celebrated a wedding and I nearly lost OH to a serious bronchial pneumonia - in one way, similarly with lockdown, it is an eternity but in another it is no time at all!
Now that lovely family has grown to three beautiful children and thankfully OH is well on the way to having his second eye operation at the end of this month. Although we have had one vaccination, another has not appeared on the horizon and we are being very careful in not mingling although we have been officially freed since 1 April from the shielding which has been onerous to say the least as the second eye operation is so important.
Sadly a young acquaintance and an older lady have both died yesterday so any cheer at the longer days is tempered with sadness, coupled with the anniversary of an old friend who died a year ago tomorrow. The only thing to be thankful for is that they are all out of their suffering and at peace - along with my beloved son.
The BBC outdid themselves with a performance of the Easter music from "Messiah" yesterday by the ENO with a magnificent performance from the Samoan born New Zealander, Brendan Wilson, who reduced me to tears, Easter reflections from Kings' and today an absolute feast of religious programmes which helped us tremendously as although our church was open, we chose not to risk going in case anything affected the important operation at the end of the month.
16 May 2021
The second eye operation is much more successful than the first and OH is now seeing stuff that he has not seen for 50 years!
His joy is a wonder to behold and I am so thankful that all has gone well and he sees without glasses which is not only a bit odd for me, but also for him as he has worn specs since he was 9!
Several hundred years ago of course.
Another bonus is that he can see the birds properly for the first time and is absolutely thrilled - and so am I.
The second eye operation is much more successful than the first and OH is now seeing stuff that he has not seen for 50 years!
His joy is a wonder to behold and I am so thankful that all has gone well and he sees without glasses which is not only a bit odd for me, but also for him as he has worn specs since he was 9!
Several hundred years ago of course.
Another bonus is that he can see the birds properly for the first time and is absolutely thrilled - and so am I.
21 September 2021
So much has happened in the last few months that I have hardly had time to breathe!
We now have something called hedgehogs in our gutter which had previously provided our starlings with a lovely shower when the rain cascaded and moved the joint of the downpipe and that was one large cost.
Our CCTV starting sounding as though it was a 40-a day smoker so that had to be updated again at a large cost.
My beloved Fiesta needed road tax, MOT, insurance and service all at the end of August - another large cost.
The recent weeks have been spent in trying to find/source/inspect a suitable venue for our choir to return to singing and that has meant a great many virtual committee meetings, including one memorable one lasting 2 hours!
Then, to crown it all, Tesco, in their wisdom, decided that all current accounts with them were going to be closed with the result that they managed to collapse the switching service - quite a feat I thought. So in the interim I had little idea when and what would happen or where my money was for at least two weeks.
On top of all this, Vodafone, with whom I have been a loyal customer (silly me) for more than 20 years, decided that my modest account with them was going to cost me 50% more each month. So, having announced that to all their customers at the same time meant that their website crashed and I was unable to get the necessary code to switch to another provider.
The upside of that was that a half-hour conversation with a lovely chap from Sky not only meant that my mobile contract was a ridiculously small amount but also that, being a VIP as I have been with them for more than 20 years, we have had our Sky service upgraded to all HD and other stuff at no further charge apart from set-up.
There is always a silver lining!
So much has happened in the last few months that I have hardly had time to breathe!
We now have something called hedgehogs in our gutter which had previously provided our starlings with a lovely shower when the rain cascaded and moved the joint of the downpipe and that was one large cost.
Our CCTV starting sounding as though it was a 40-a day smoker so that had to be updated again at a large cost.
My beloved Fiesta needed road tax, MOT, insurance and service all at the end of August - another large cost.
The recent weeks have been spent in trying to find/source/inspect a suitable venue for our choir to return to singing and that has meant a great many virtual committee meetings, including one memorable one lasting 2 hours!
Then, to crown it all, Tesco, in their wisdom, decided that all current accounts with them were going to be closed with the result that they managed to collapse the switching service - quite a feat I thought. So in the interim I had little idea when and what would happen or where my money was for at least two weeks.
On top of all this, Vodafone, with whom I have been a loyal customer (silly me) for more than 20 years, decided that my modest account with them was going to cost me 50% more each month. So, having announced that to all their customers at the same time meant that their website crashed and I was unable to get the necessary code to switch to another provider.
The upside of that was that a half-hour conversation with a lovely chap from Sky not only meant that my mobile contract was a ridiculously small amount but also that, being a VIP as I have been with them for more than 20 years, we have had our Sky service upgraded to all HD and other stuff at no further charge apart from set-up.
There is always a silver lining!
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8 January 2021
It would be churlish not to welcome the New Year as indeed I cannot be the only person on the planet who is glad to see the back of the previous year. It has been an experience being together with OH absolutely all the time but I am glad to say that we have enjoyed the experience and if anything we are closer now than before in that we often do little things without the other asking and that is just splendid.
Roll on better days!
It would be churlish not to welcome the New Year as indeed I cannot be the only person on the planet who is glad to see the back of the previous year. It has been an experience being together with OH absolutely all the time but I am glad to say that we have enjoyed the experience and if anything we are closer now than before in that we often do little things without the other asking and that is just splendid.
Roll on better days!
These two rather strange-looking monsters are just that - worry monsters which I have had much delight in creating.
They are for children/teens who are in therapy following trauma of many kinds and the idea is that the child writes their worries and concerns on a piece of paper and then put the paper in the mouth of the monster who then gobbles them up!
Apparently, together with talking therapy, these work very well and I am proud that I have already completed two which have been sent, four, which I am awaiting the Royal Mail getting their parcel collect service up an running in our village, and one in process. They are such a good way of using up what OH calls an enormous stash of yarn!
Sadly the one with the knickers/underpants is for those children who have been abused which breaks my heart.
They are for children/teens who are in therapy following trauma of many kinds and the idea is that the child writes their worries and concerns on a piece of paper and then put the paper in the mouth of the monster who then gobbles them up!
Apparently, together with talking therapy, these work very well and I am proud that I have already completed two which have been sent, four, which I am awaiting the Royal Mail getting their parcel collect service up an running in our village, and one in process. They are such a good way of using up what OH calls an enormous stash of yarn!
Sadly the one with the knickers/underpants is for those children who have been abused which breaks my heart.
22 January 2021
As OH and I have been shielding since March last year, with only forays out to medical appointments, I have found myself with some time on my hands, not least because I was lucky enough to have a superb cleaner is just a lovely person. Sadly, she cannot visit during the current lockdown as she has domestic and family duties but I cannot wait for her return. In the meantime my wonderful Hetty has come to the rescue so I am doing a bit at a time and giving OH a duster when needed!
As OH and I have been shielding since March last year, with only forays out to medical appointments, I have found myself with some time on my hands, not least because I was lucky enough to have a superb cleaner is just a lovely person. Sadly, she cannot visit during the current lockdown as she has domestic and family duties but I cannot wait for her return. In the meantime my wonderful Hetty has come to the rescue so I am doing a bit at a time and giving OH a duster when needed!
23 February 2021
Goodness me! These last few months have thrown all kinds of challenges to us and I am only now being able to clear my mind sufficiently to put my thoughts down on paper.
OH has for some months been suffering from dimished sight due to cataracts and owing to the pandemic, the NHS waiting list means that he was given an appointment after he had the first operation last Saturday! Going privately goes against the grain but the whole problem was affecting his life so much that it was the only option. Thankfully all is well and I am becoming adept at administering eyedrops which is really scary!
We also had a torrid time with one circuit of our electricity cutting out at random times and as it was the one with the boiler on it that was inconvenient to say the least. A friend recommended a super electrician who patiently sorted it all out for us and I have so much to be thankful for with all the support around me from friends and family and a phone and computer so that I can communitcate.
Turn it round and look for the good my Mum always used to say so I am doing that.
Goodness me! These last few months have thrown all kinds of challenges to us and I am only now being able to clear my mind sufficiently to put my thoughts down on paper.
OH has for some months been suffering from dimished sight due to cataracts and owing to the pandemic, the NHS waiting list means that he was given an appointment after he had the first operation last Saturday! Going privately goes against the grain but the whole problem was affecting his life so much that it was the only option. Thankfully all is well and I am becoming adept at administering eyedrops which is really scary!
We also had a torrid time with one circuit of our electricity cutting out at random times and as it was the one with the boiler on it that was inconvenient to say the least. A friend recommended a super electrician who patiently sorted it all out for us and I have so much to be thankful for with all the support around me from friends and family and a phone and computer so that I can communitcate.
Turn it round and look for the good my Mum always used to say so I am doing that.
4 April 2021
I cannot believe that eight years have gone by since my lovely adopted family celebrated a wedding and I nearly lost OH to a serious bronchial pneumonia - in one way, similarly with lockdown, it is an eternity but in another it is no time at all!
Now that lovely family has grown to three beautiful children and thankfully OH is well on the way to having his second eye operation at the end of this month. Although we have had one vaccination, another has not appeared on the horizon and we are being very careful in not mingling although we have been officially freed since 1 April from the shielding which has been onerous to say the least as the second eye operation is so important.
Sadly a young acquaintance and an older lady have both died yesterday so any cheer at the longer days is tempered with sadness, coupled with the anniversary of an old friend who died a year ago tomorrow. The only thing to be thankful for is that they are all out of their suffering and at peace - along with my beloved son.
The BBC outdid themselves with a performance of the Easter music from "Messiah" yesterday by the ENO with a magnificent performance from the Samoan born New Zealander, Brendan Wilson, who reduced me to tears, Easter reflections from Kings' and today an absolute feast of religious programmes which helped us tremendously as although our church was open, we chose not to risk going in case anything affected the important operation at the end of the month.
I cannot believe that eight years have gone by since my lovely adopted family celebrated a wedding and I nearly lost OH to a serious bronchial pneumonia - in one way, similarly with lockdown, it is an eternity but in another it is no time at all!
Now that lovely family has grown to three beautiful children and thankfully OH is well on the way to having his second eye operation at the end of this month. Although we have had one vaccination, another has not appeared on the horizon and we are being very careful in not mingling although we have been officially freed since 1 April from the shielding which has been onerous to say the least as the second eye operation is so important.
Sadly a young acquaintance and an older lady have both died yesterday so any cheer at the longer days is tempered with sadness, coupled with the anniversary of an old friend who died a year ago tomorrow. The only thing to be thankful for is that they are all out of their suffering and at peace - along with my beloved son.
The BBC outdid themselves with a performance of the Easter music from "Messiah" yesterday by the ENO with a magnificent performance from the Samoan born New Zealander, Brendan Wilson, who reduced me to tears, Easter reflections from Kings' and today an absolute feast of religious programmes which helped us tremendously as although our church was open, we chose not to risk going in case anything affected the important operation at the end of the month.
16 May 2021
The second eye operation is much more successful than the first and OH is now seeing stuff that he has not seen for 50 years!
His joy is a wonder to behold and I am so thankful that all has gone well and he sees without glasses which is not only a bit odd for me, but also for him as he has worn specs since he was 9!
Several hundred years ago of course.
Another bonus is that he can see the birds properly for the first time and is absolutely thrilled - and so am I.
The second eye operation is much more successful than the first and OH is now seeing stuff that he has not seen for 50 years!
His joy is a wonder to behold and I am so thankful that all has gone well and he sees without glasses which is not only a bit odd for me, but also for him as he has worn specs since he was 9!
Several hundred years ago of course.
Another bonus is that he can see the birds properly for the first time and is absolutely thrilled - and so am I.
21 September 2021
So much has happened in the last few months that I have hardly had time to breathe!
We now have something called hedgehogs in our gutter which had previously provided our starlings with a lovely shower when the rain cascaded and moved the joint of the downpipe and that was one large cost.
Our CCTV starting sounding as though it was a 40-a day smoker so that had to be updated again at a large cost.
My beloved Fiesta needed road tax, MOT, insurance and service all at the end of August - another large cost.
The recent weeks have been spent in trying to find/source/inspect a suitable venue for our choir to return to singing and that has meant a great many virtual committee meetings, including one memorable one lasting 2 hours!
Then, to crown it all, Tesco, in their wisdom, decided that all current accounts with them were going to be closed with the result that they managed to collapse the switching service - quite a feat I thought. So in the interim I had little idea when and what would happen or where my money was for at least two weeks.
On top of all this, Vodafone, with whom I have been a loyal customer (silly me) for more than 20 years, decided that my modest account with them was going to cost me 50% more each month. So, having announced that to all their customers at the same time meant that their website crashed and I was unable to get the necessary code to switch to another provider.
The upside of that was that a half-hour conversation with a lovely chap from Sky not only meant that my mobile contract was a ridiculously small amount but also that, being a VIP as I have been with them for more than 20 years, we have had our Sky service upgraded to all HD and other stuff at no further charge apart from set-up.
There is always a silver lining!
So much has happened in the last few months that I have hardly had time to breathe!
We now have something called hedgehogs in our gutter which had previously provided our starlings with a lovely shower when the rain cascaded and moved the joint of the downpipe and that was one large cost.
Our CCTV starting sounding as though it was a 40-a day smoker so that had to be updated again at a large cost.
My beloved Fiesta needed road tax, MOT, insurance and service all at the end of August - another large cost.
The recent weeks have been spent in trying to find/source/inspect a suitable venue for our choir to return to singing and that has meant a great many virtual committee meetings, including one memorable one lasting 2 hours!
Then, to crown it all, Tesco, in their wisdom, decided that all current accounts with them were going to be closed with the result that they managed to collapse the switching service - quite a feat I thought. So in the interim I had little idea when and what would happen or where my money was for at least two weeks.
On top of all this, Vodafone, with whom I have been a loyal customer (silly me) for more than 20 years, decided that my modest account with them was going to cost me 50% more each month. So, having announced that to all their customers at the same time meant that their website crashed and I was unable to get the necessary code to switch to another provider.
The upside of that was that a half-hour conversation with a lovely chap from Sky not only meant that my mobile contract was a ridiculously small amount but also that, being a VIP as I have been with them for more than 20 years, we have had our Sky service upgraded to all HD and other stuff at no further charge apart from set-up.
There is always a silver lining!
18 March 2022
I cannot believe that we are half-way through March and I have not had the time or inclination to update the website.
My best, and lovely friend A, was diagnosed just before Christmas with an aggressive form of cancer and I have been devastated much more than I had realised.
As her designated driver I was asked by the hospital to isolate until her operation which was at the end of January. Her time in hospital is best not catalogued - suffice to say that 14 days without visitors, mobile signal or landline had her mental health in rapid decline so she was forced to discharge herself and for that I do not blame her.
The ensuing few months have been hairy to say the least but at last, this week, she was absolutely discharged with the cancer not having advanced. I took her to her signing off appointment and was disappointed to miss it - largely because the hospital concerned is having extensive building work done and as part of that it seems a pizza van is an essential part of that even though it was parked across 4 disabled spaces!
That is disgraceful I think.
I cannot believe that we are half-way through March and I have not had the time or inclination to update the website.
My best, and lovely friend A, was diagnosed just before Christmas with an aggressive form of cancer and I have been devastated much more than I had realised.
As her designated driver I was asked by the hospital to isolate until her operation which was at the end of January. Her time in hospital is best not catalogued - suffice to say that 14 days without visitors, mobile signal or landline had her mental health in rapid decline so she was forced to discharge herself and for that I do not blame her.
The ensuing few months have been hairy to say the least but at last, this week, she was absolutely discharged with the cancer not having advanced. I took her to her signing off appointment and was disappointed to miss it - largely because the hospital concerned is having extensive building work done and as part of that it seems a pizza van is an essential part of that even though it was parked across 4 disabled spaces!
That is disgraceful I think.
30 June 2022
So it seems that running the bookings for a church hall is an absolute minefield!
As there is no caretaker, we volunteers, all over 70, have to take on responsibility for the running, cleaning, maintenance and general well-being of a beautiful hall, built some 15 years ago, without any outside help.
When OH and I said we would take over not only the bookings but also the Treasurer job we did not anticipate the amount of effort and time that would have to be expended in those particular roles.
Added to that, my lovely A, diagnosed with bowel cancer, required all my strength and support since November, I am reminded that time is precious and I should make the most of what I have left.
Another sorrow in my life is the demise of my choral society. The pandemic was always going to be problematic but in our case it has been terminal and I am devastated. After 17 years trying to keep the ship afloat I am, at last, giving in to the inevitability of the last sessions. At least we will go out with a bang and a wonderful concert planned of the Mozart Requiem, most of which I can sing without the score!
So it seems that running the bookings for a church hall is an absolute minefield!
As there is no caretaker, we volunteers, all over 70, have to take on responsibility for the running, cleaning, maintenance and general well-being of a beautiful hall, built some 15 years ago, without any outside help.
When OH and I said we would take over not only the bookings but also the Treasurer job we did not anticipate the amount of effort and time that would have to be expended in those particular roles.
Added to that, my lovely A, diagnosed with bowel cancer, required all my strength and support since November, I am reminded that time is precious and I should make the most of what I have left.
Another sorrow in my life is the demise of my choral society. The pandemic was always going to be problematic but in our case it has been terminal and I am devastated. After 17 years trying to keep the ship afloat I am, at last, giving in to the inevitability of the last sessions. At least we will go out with a bang and a wonderful concert planned of the Mozart Requiem, most of which I can sing without the score!
